The Humility Of Realizing I've Done That And I'm No Better

In our daily interactions, we often encounter people whose behavior we find objectionable or frustrating. It can be easy to judge or react negatively, but the ancient Roman Emperor and philosopher Marcus Aurelius offers us a profound piece of wisdom: when you see someone acting objectionably, remember when you have acted that way.

I remember getting angry at a date who fell asleep and never made it to meet me. If I was important, how can that have happened, I reasoned.  I was humbled a few years later when I forgot to wish my son a happy birthday. Oops.

This thought encourages us to practice empathy and self-reflection. By recalling our own moments of imperfection, we can better understand and relate to others. This approach not only fosters compassion but also helps us manage our reactions more constructively.

Empathy is a powerful tool for building stronger relationships and creating a more harmonious environment. When we remember our own flaws and mistakes, we are less likely to judge others harshly. Instead, we can offer understanding and support, recognizing that everyone has their own struggles and challenges.

Marcus Aurelius's thought is a timeless reminder to approach others with empathy and understanding, by remembering our own moments of imperfection.

Try this ONE thing

Next time you encounter someone acting objectionably, take a moment to reflect on your own experiences and respond with kindness and empathy.

This is how we make the world better.

Want to experience coaching? I like to start with a deep, get-to-know-you conversation to see if we are right for each other. Sometimes we talk for one or two hours at no charge. I have no goal except to bring about transformation. Together we work on the lies, the self-deception, the fears of the power you perceive to be outside yourself. We work on your difficulties in making decisions and your inability thus far to make bold choices in life and to follow through and trust yourself completely to do so.

The irony for some people is that the very thing that they want the coaching for (an indecisive, half-hearted life) is what’s keeping them from deciding whether to get coaching.

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